20 August, 2026

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Forget about what other people may think about you.Because they don't.You may feel so caught up with what people think, that it consumes you.What if my work isn't good enough?What if they don't like me?What if this post I’m about to write feels cringy?What if, what if, what if.The truth is, you don't know what people are thinking.Even if their body language is clear.Even if they tell you direct to your face you suck.The issue is with them. Not you.We do more damage in our minds than in real life.People have their own problems.Do you really think they are thinking of yours 24/7?Don’t be too mindful of what others think.Be mindful of what really matters to you.Even the people that care about you have their own thing going on.They too will forget or simply not care. Non-plussed.So before you even start contemplating about what people will think,Remember no-one does.Just do your thing.Tansel

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